Have you really lost your family over this ???
Is your son happy you are alive ? (they almost lost you for good ) Does your Father really think a blood transfusion to save your life should end your relationship with him ??? ASK HIM DIRECTLY ... Can you not reason with the family that the Elders pryed into your private life just to start trouble for you ? I mean it was no secret to your family that you were inactive ,right ? And they were still in contact with you then ...........
Ask them, why did the Elders take this step ,now, when you are at your weakest point ? GET THEM TO THINK !!! Keep making the point "IS this really the love CHrist talked about ?"
Oompa I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of your recovery . It pains me to think you have gone through so much trauma already and now all this UNNECESSARY emotional trauma is being heaped upon you . I wish sometimes I could just smack people upside the head and WAKE them up to how much precious time they are losing with their loved ones when they allow the Watchtower Society to interfere with their family relationships .
I hope your family will realize they are fortunate to have you alive and not waste a moment celebrating your life .